Of course. [why wouldn't she enjoy the moment of actually being asked for help, someone conceding to her wisdom in such things?] But my goals lie at us achieving a compromise, something you feel comfortable in that yet meets the standards for such an event.

[and it's not like it's something terribly difficult. men have it easier than women when it comes to looks. but it's probably unspoken that he's not keeping the hat for a slightly dressier event.]

Trust me?